Okay so my first time living on my own went horribly horribly south. Not only could I barely get online to keep my blog updated but I had the room mate from hell. I mean seriously she was just awful the last straw that made me leave is when she yelled at me saying she was gonna smack me in the face, took my house key, and told me that my boyfriend couldn't come visit me at all anymore. She would try and drag me with her to work all day which could have gotten her fired, told everyone that she did all the house work and took care of everything at the house when truth is I did all the cleaning, the dishes, sweeping, windows, bathroom, and more, job applications everyday trying to get my own job, when I decided to go out and enjoy myself she would flip out, she didn't like me hanging out with any other friends or my own boyfriend, when I tried to spend time with my family or go home for a weekend she started this huge argument saying that she needed help taking care of the house when I already did that anyways, didn't like me going to church, or even going to job interviews, she was the most controlling room mate ever, she would spend a hundred bucks on drinking while she's underage and wouldn't pay the land lord, then yell at me for not helping support the house when I wasn't able to get a job, and I would have to go to my mom for basic needs likes toilet paper or tooth paste, ect.. There was a whole lot of problems like that with her including her having a bunch of perverted drunk guys over all the time at all hours of the day. Which made me extremely uncomfortable exspecialy when they would hit on me and try to get all touchy feely with me, and she knew how it made me feel but still had them over and slept with almost all of 'em.
I also left the house because one of the people upstairs sexually assaulted me and the land lord got upset because I got a protection order against him even though he told me go ahead and get it, but you know what they can get over it and the sex offender can go back to living in that hell house. Oh yea my room mate would also freaking snort pills, and then tell me to babysit my three year old nephew at the house. Oh HELL NO! I am not bringing any of my young family near her.
Now she has been bugging myself, home, and my mother's phone trying to cuss me out and yell at me cause I packed up all my stuff and within two car loads got it all out the house and left a note on why I left. Then she wants to tell me I owe her money for staying there when no I don't because she invited me to live with her knowing I didn't have a job at the time, and we had no written or verbal agreement, so her threatening to call the cops on me doesn't scare me one bit because I did no crime what so ever. But I will say it took a lot of effort for me not to go off on her that last night I was there and she was threatening me I was ready to blow up but I knew that it wouldn't matter cause I would be gone the next day. She also wants to try and blame my boyfriend for the vandalism that happened when some of those guys she invited over in the middle of the night came back and broke into the house and tore up her stuff. She got what she deserved for screwing 'em all.
But on a happy note I have a wonderful new boyfriend who tries his hardest to do everything to make me happy, and is always there for me when I need him. The night I was sexually harassed he jumped into his car and raced over to try and protect me. Though by the time he got there the cops had come and arrested the guy though they were still there talking to me and my ex room mate and one of the guys she sleeps with and supposedly calls her bf. Yea I'd like to see how he would react if he knew she was screwing every guy that came around. I am just so happy to be home though, and to have a wonderful guy who treats me right and even started coming to church with me. to be in a safe environment again is just great. Hopefully I'll soon have a job cause my church family is trying to help me find a job and giving me recommendations to a bunch of places. I won't be on food stamps much longer though since I'm not twenty two and living at home again temporarily, but it'll be ok cause i'll reapply for them once I find a place to stay, but just back home for now and it is nice. For now with everything that is going on to catch anyone who reads this back up on my life and all my geekyness I will most likely be posting either every day or every other day. My post tomorrow will have more geekyness but for today I just needed a way to vent, but here's a life lesson. Just because you can be friends or even so called best friends with someone on a day to day basis doesn't always mean you can live with them cause they could have a whole other side to them and just turn out to be a horrible room mate. So when moving in with someone do a kind of trial time to see how things are because if you just move straight in you could end up in a bad situation like I did, so please be careful and make sure you know someone completely first. That's all for today have a blessed day and I'll post tomorrow. :)
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